The personality traits of the baby manifest from the first weeks of life. Discovering them is one of the most exciting parts of having a child.

Is it very active and lively, or is it rather quiet? Are you shy about new situations, like the first bathroom, or enjoy the novelty? You will find keys to your child’s personality in everything he does, from falling asleep and crying. The more you strive to identify these signs and learn to respond appropriately to your child’s personality, the more calm and predictable your life will be in the coming months.

Although many of these traits depend on the genetic makeup that the child has inherited, if your child has been born prematurely, it may take time to present such traits.

If you had certain ideas about child care before the birth of your child, revalue them now to see if they fit the characteristics of the child. Do exactly the same with advice from experts (books, articles and, above all, well-meaning friends and family) on how to care for and educate a child. The only truth is that there is no ‘precise formula’ for raising a child. You must create your own guides, based on the unique personality of your baby, your own ideas and the particular circumstances of your family life.

The most important thing is that you accept and respect the individuality of your child. Do not try to box it in any mold or pattern. Your child’s unique personality is his or her main value and respecting it from the beginning will help you lay the foundation of your self-esteem and your ability to maintain harmonious relationships with others.